Pursuit without forcing something is a delicate task. And, it is easy to give up on the former out of fear of the latter.
Waiting is just hard...we are so inclined to take matters into our own hands. An active waiting doesn't give up, doesn't quit, but is willing to wait....this may, in fact, be at the heart of love.
...and the goal can't be to 'try without getting hurt' in the process.
