One of the blessings of poverty (being poor, not being 'rich', etc.) is the built-in 'No' in life.
Too bad we don't often see it that way. But, I still suspect it is true; there is 'no' built into the regular life of those without much means. And while not always the case, those who "can't" seem blessed with something that those who "can" often don't have. It is hard to describe, but you do know when you see it. For example, the thorough enjoyment of something out of the ordinary, genuine gratitude for gifts from others, a simpleness (peace) that pervades one's existence with the direct and experiential knowledge that all goodness comes from God.
...and I'm really impressed by those who don't have to, but still say 'No' to things in life. It confirms that they believe in something more than their money.
