3 Observations & A Question

You have to be human first...repeat, human first.

If happiness is something you feel, joy is something you know.

At some point, you have to recognize what isn’t serving you well and get rid of it (does it make it more true if Joe learned this, too?).

Most people leave where they don’t feel safe, either simply because they can or because they’re desperate enough — wouldn’t you?

Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

On The Lighter Side: Favorite Child

 On the Lighter Side:

Dehumanizing

Instagram: sharonsaysso

If we weren't already, we really need to consider this IG observation on dehumanization by Sharon McMahon.

I say 'we' because the range and content of the comments are...frightening.

Judge Each Day

Judge each day, not by the harvest, but by the seeds you plant.

-- William Arthur Ward

Like A Little Empty Attic

I consider that a man's brain originally is like a little empty attic, and you have to stock it with such furniture as you choose. A fool takes in all the lumber of every sort that he comes across, so that the knowledge which might be useful to him gets crowded out, or at best is jumbled up with a lot of other things so that he has a difficulty in laying his hands. 

 -- Sherlock Holmes

Though fictional in character, the observation isn't.  It seems pretty descriptive, on a number of levels, with all the things that now clutter our minds.

Perhaps this is why clear thinking these days seems to have escaped us.

Care For The Oppressed

I’m wondering…as a society, why does it seem to require courage to care for the oppressed?

Life Experience

No matter the religion or denomination in which we are raised, our spirituality still comes through the first filter of our own life experience.

-- Richard Rohr

4 Observations (from Others)

We cannot know love if we remain unable to surrender our attachment to power.

-- Bell Hooks

I believe that in times such as these, we are all being called to listen. 

-- Barbara Otero-López

It may be that when we no longer know what to do, 
we have come to our real work and when we no longer know which way to go, 
we have begun our real journey. 

The mind that is not baffled is not employed. 
The impeded stream is the one that sings. 

-- Wendell Berry

How shall we negotiate postmodernity without inner strength?

-- Barbara Holmes

Prior 4 Observations (from Others).

I Love America

This 4th of July, I'm not sure what to be more discouraged about, the ideologies of the current President or the congress that keeps bank-rolling them...all not under the premise of more limited government, but by unvarnished increasing the size and scope of it (ICE is now the most heavily funded law enforcement agency in the government...does that seem right to anyone?) to enable the priorities of the President.

Because...

I love America.

Though there are growing parts of it that I love less and less, I love America.  Not for all the vagaries and travesties it has wrought throughout its history, but for the ideals of freedom it represents.

And, selfishly, I love America for the personal benefits that I have enjoyed from that freedom (I know that not everybody has, for all kinds of reasons — choices they’ve made; choices that others have made — and that tarnishes my enjoyment). 

Both its great ideals and amazing beauty are wonderful to behold.

In many ways now, I am afraid for both.  Values seem to be overtaken by the power of money.  Perhaps, it has always been this way, but it seems like it is getting worse.  Though some people have always treated others badly, it now seems fashionable to do so.  

The common good seems more like an after-thought at best.  People seem myopically focused on their own needs and no longer seem to consider how those are met, at least in part, by the things we gain from a common good point of view.  Leaders seem more energized by personal gain through the manipulation of the common good than the ideals of them overall.  Serving the common good seems to have been completely reconfigured.  

Sacrifice for the sake of others at one point seemed emboldening; now it seems to be passé. 

As my recent posts reflect, it is easy to point out the prevailing fallacies of our time.  But, I love was America and want to be a part of promoting its ideals even more.

The America I love...loves each other.

The America I love...looks out for the disadvantaged.

The America I love...values differences.

The America I love...invites people to a vision for all people.

The America I love...does not promote fear.

The America I love...protects what is good.

The America I love...acknowledges where real power comes from.

The America I love...works at unity (not uniformity).

The America I love...honors sacrifice for the benefit of the common good.

Does any of this seem like what is happening now?  Well, not really, but if we can just get all these immigrants out of here....  Seriously?

I'm getting together with friends and family today and doing many of the things we have all come to enjoy about the innocence of our freedoms.  I will eat hotdogs and ice cream, drink a beer, throw water balloons and...wave a flag for America (pics here).

But, in the back of my mind, I wonder (even fear) if what I love about America is actually still here...for the common good (or even for me).

Strengthened By Use

Courage is very important.  Like a muscle, it is strengthened by use.

-- Ruth Gordon

'Big Beautiful(?) Bill', Con’t

Please read this. We don’t have time to wait. People will suffer.

Senator Chris Murphy just sent out this report from the Senate Floor: He specifies what each American can do, pronto. He says we do not have the luxury of waiting until mid-terms or 2 years at the rate the dismantling and deletions of our programs have taken place:

“Last night in the Senate, something really important happened. Republicans forced us to debate their billionaire bailout budget framework. We started voting at 6 PM because they knew doing it in the dark of night would minimize media coverage. And they do not want the American people to see how blatant their handover of our government to the billionaire class is.

So I want to explain what happened last night and what we did to fight back:

The apex of Republicans’ plan to turn over our government to their wealthy cronies is a giant tax cut for billionaires and corporations. And they plan to pay for it with cuts to programs that working people rely on. Popular and necessary programs like Medicaid, Medicare, and SNAP, are all being targeted. In order to pass the tax cut, Republicans have to go through a series of procedural steps. Last night, they took the first step which requires them to pass an outline of their plan, but with it, any senator can offer as many amendments as we want. So my Democratic colleagues and I did just that.

Now, we knew that Republicans would largely unanimously oppose them, but we had two objectives here. One, Republicans were forced to put their opinion on record — many for the first time — on the most corrupt parts of Trump and Musk’s agenda. Two, as I’ve been saying, I am going to make every process and procedure as slow and painful as possible for as long as my colleagues choose to ignore the constitutional crisis happening before our eyes.

So what did we propose?

We proposed no tax cuts for anyone who makes a billion dollars a year.

We made them vote on whether or not Elon Musk and DOGE should have limitless access to Americans’ personal data.

We made them vote on whether to protect IVF and require insurers to cover it. Every single amendment Democrats proposed was shot down.

On almost every single amendment, Republicans universally opposed it. Every Republican voted against our proposal to prevent more tax cuts for billionaires. The corruption and theft is happening in the open here.

The whole game for Republicans is taking your money and giving it to the wealthiest corporations and billionaires — even if it means kicking your parents out of a nursing home or turning off Medicaid for the poorest children.

They know what they are doing is deeply unpopular. They are offering a tax cut to the most wealthy that is 850 times larger than what they are offering working people. Oh and by the way, any tax cuts for working people are going to be washed out by higher costs for basic necessities, like health care and food. It’s a fundamental injustice.

Thanks to your pressure and support, many of my Democratic colleagues have joined my effort to do everything we can to make sure they cannot destroy democracy and steal your money in the dark of the night. We are being loud about what is happening. I’m going to continue to grind the gears of Congress down as much as possible to make it that much harder and slower to get away with this corruption. That’s why the votes lasted until nearly 5 AM.

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This is a five-alarm fire. I don’t think we have two years to plan and fight back. I think we have months. It’s still in our power to stop the destruction of our democracy with mass mobilization and effective opposition from elected officials.

So we can’t miss any opportunity to take advantage of opportunities to put Republicans on the record and shine a light on what is happening.

And you have a role to play in this as well. I need you to amplify what’s happening, support the leaders who are fighting for you to make sure they can continue speaking truth to power against Musk and Trump’s billionaire cronies, and show up at rallies and town halls.

Use every tool at your disposal to send a message loud and clear about how you expect my colleagues to lead and fight in this moment.”

-- Chris Patrick Murphy, US Senator

The insidious part (of which there are many) is that our President is gloating about what this will enable him to expand against people he has wholesale characterized in terms quite similar to those used in Nazi Germany less than 100 years ago (just trade Jews then for immigrants now).

Most Republicans are either too naïve about what is happening or too scared to stop him (only 3 Republican senators voted NO on the bill).

Polls continue to show the majority of Americans oppose the bill.

It's Authoritarianism wrapped in bureaucratic language....

We have to wake up before it is too late.  At that point, saying "Gosh, I just didn't know..." will be such a pitiful response.  We need to respond now (especially, since we didn't earlier — that's on us as Trump has told us all the way along what his intentions were...and are).

Differentiation Comes From Clarity

Companies that offer too many options often struggle to differentiate. Differentiation comes from clarity of WHY, not excess of WHAT.

-- Simon Sinek

'Big Beautiful(?) Bill'

GOP tax bill would cost poor Americans $1,600 a year and boost highest earners by $12,000, CBO says

And, this may not even be the worst part of it.

Have you seen what it funds (besides more of this)? And, what it takes money away from to do so (not to mention how much money it adds to the deficit), like this and this?

Even Elon Musk calls it political suicide (but, here might be why...).

Such things, in the end, reflect what we value.  In this case (though it's not the first time, to be sure), it seems primarily about how to make more money now (not about what's good for us or our future).

It's like money is our god or something (somebody else mentioned that once)....

And, there's really nothing beautiful about it.

Jesus Moved, Touched, Wept, and Welcomed

Instagram: brcremer

3 Observations & A Question

How we see ourselves is critical and the lens we use to do so is important.

Don’t develop the habit of isolating yourself — it’s too easy to do.

Fox News is the bane of the older evangelical generation.

Don't we know yet how repulsive self-righteousness is?

Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

Make You Numb

Father of U.S. Marines punched and arrested by Border Patrol agents in Orange County

Disgusting....

Story after story after story like this one continue to emerge.

Can we really be unfazed by this as long as 'it's not one of us'?  When will outrage prevail?

Even more than outrage, we need solidarity and sensitivity; not to mention, nonviolence. Continue here….

Lying

When lying becomes prolific, it’s hard to believe anything is true. Believing is the operative concept here — a function of trust. If a person cannot be trusted, it’s hard to believe anything they say. When we say, "I don’t believe you", we’re essentially saying "I can’t trust you". Though we will never do it perfectly consistently, we have to be committed to telling the truth.

Now, we do have to get one the right — to admit that we only ever see portions of the truth. In other words, none of us is a repository of all truth. Each of us participates with the broader concepts of truth, but always in a limited way. This is not as particularly a disadvantage as it may sound. It acknowledges our right size relationship with truth (we are not God...thankfully). The beauty of this is that it is the pooling of each of our limited perspectives of what is true that reveals the reality of that greater truth. We are meant to come together to share our individual and collective truth (one does, actually, depend on the other). This is, in fact, what makes truth one. And so, by acknowledging our individual limitations, a key ingredient to seeking the truth is our interest and openness to finding it, in discovering it, and looking for it. And, this commitment needs to be a shared one for it to work well.

This commitment also includes discipline with regard to things like lying, the intentional distortion of truth. We must uphold the long-term value of telling the truth over the short-term advantage of lying.

Lying is a contagion when it is normalized. When lying is viewed without morality — merely as a means to an end — it spreads both widely and deeply. Our, otherwise constructive, energy is siphoned off to combat the forces of lying. It is really a misuse of our energy that could be applied to the perpetuation of the ideals of truth. Further, it is challenging (to say the least) not to become suspicious; not only of the liar, but of anyone who associates with a liar…and their unwillingness to see or find truth. This is, among other things, the insidiousness of it, as it disempowers the forces of energy for both the purposes and benefits of truth.

The collective has to win the battle for truth. And, that is achieved by the personal commitment to seeking and telling...the truth.

Worst Thing

No one is the worst thing they've ever done.

-- Oprah Winfrey

Excel At Things

The greatest business failures often come not from playing the game poorly, but from continuing to excel at things that no longer matter.

-- Shane Parrish

Sugar

I’ve noticed…the more sugar I eat, the more sugar I want to eat.

…literally, and metaphorically.

Your Perception of God

Is God present in our world today? 

Of course, this can't really be proven (especially with man-made instrumentation).  Like it or not, we're really down to our perception of God's presence then, aren't we?

So, what impacts your perception of God's presence in the world the most?

A recent experience mountain-top experience of the beauty and magnitude of nature?

An encounter somewhere along your journey with the devastation that humanity brings on itself and its surroundings?

Intimate relationships that perpetuate the ideals of love?

The damage you’ve seen or experienced from someone or something?

In other words, is it the height of your experience with beauty and joy or the depth of it with depravity and despair?

What would you add to the list…or to the question?

Don’t Match The Energy

3 Observations & A Question

All they need is enough, it doesn’t even have to be a majority — just enough. 

If you don’t want to say it now, it only gets harder to say it later.

It is far more effective to work on yourself, than on somebody else.

Do you know much you can take? — how do you know?

Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

Authoritarianism, Con’t

Instagram: sharonsaysso

Authoritarianism:

The law cracks down on protesters and librarians, but shields corrupt officials and violent allies.

Disagreeing with power is called betrayal.  But those who lie to protect it are promoted.

Distracts, distorts, and divides, so no one notices what people in power are actually doing.

-- Sharon McMahon

Mesmerized

We often seem mesmerized by the marvels of technology.

Perhaps, as a species, we always have been, which if so may signal that much of what is seemingly new isn't...all that much.

Something about man-made technology seems to pull us away from the technology of the natural world.

I was on a walk early one morning and heard the blast of a train horn off in the distance. I remember having a feeling about it. It was cool. Cool, because of what it represented and the technology involved with building a device that can carry large weights and quantities of things over great distances. Cool, also, probably because of something nostalgic about it that struck a cord in me.

Meanwhile, birds were tweeting. Bullfrogs were belching. The leaves of trees were rustling all around me. There was nearly constant sound, multiple simultaneous sounds, as the world was waking up.

I read something recently that promoted the notion that you really have to look at something for more than a minute or two to actually see something. In other words, it’s not just staring at something, it is receiving what you’re seeing in a way that allows you to truly see what the image represents. In our scrolling-laden age, we look at millions of things and don’t really see very much of anything. We’re not, I suppose, really looking; contemplating what we're seeing, taking in their significance.

Whether listening or seeing, we’re missing so much of what is all around us, as we mesmerize ourselves with the latest man-made technology, largely fascinating, but not very enlightening.

And this, perhaps, is as much a function of the information itself. Not all information is of equal value. Some of it, just because it exists, is meaningless. It’s just there. It may be entertaining, but offers very little to life (not everything is 'life-changing', nor should it be). We seem to take great pride in our ability to process information when, in fact, we’re not really processing much of it at all, not to mention what of it is actually of any value to us.

This is likely why, time and again, distancing ourselves from the bright-and-shiny of technology, and returning to the basic environments, systems, and beauty of the natural world often reveal (not only the distinction) something more valuable to the core of who we are as human-beings.

What is Juneteenth and Why Does it Matter: A Short History

Juneteenth Goes Uncelebrated at White House as Trump Complains About ‘Too Many’ Holidays 

A meditation: Protest, Pain, amd Joy 

In Yourself

You can only understand people if you feel them in yourself.

-- John Steinbeck

LT: What You Do, How You Do It

Talk all you want, but leadership comes down to what you do and the way you do it.

Where The Shoots Through

Ever noticed…on a wooded trail, the majority of flowers seem to be positioned exactly where light shoots through?

Guardian Angel or…?

Do you believe in guardian angels?

Perhaps, the question really is, do I?  

It's hard not to notice when a more serious consideration of the question is in play — like when you're in some kind of trouble.

I recently did a 14-er with Tami, our daughter, son-in-law, and 1 yr old grandson in Colorado.  I was not prepared, in a variety of ways, because of the last minute nature of the decision to do it.  But, I thought if they were all doing it, I'd probably be fine.

It was a beautiful day.  But the higher we got, the windier and colder it got.  Not only did I not have the right shoes, but I also only had a wind-breaker.  We usually are quite prepared for these kinds of thing, but not this time...including my hydration level from the day before, not to mention the elevation issues at this altitude.  You may know where this story is headed....

As most 14-ers do, this one required some effort, especially against the cold and wind.  While our grandson did great, at some point the elements were too much and they turned back.  Tami and I forged ahead.  We could see the summit and find such things, like a final push, the kind of challenge we are invariably grateful for (at the top anyway).

The higher we went, though, the more ground I was losing physically (and, perhaps, psychologically as the impacts of the cold and increasing effort set in).  We made it to top (see here).  But, I was worn down in more than one way.  I was shaking from the cold and losing some mental capacity.

After a few pics (where I had to try to smile), we headed back down.  Here's where things really got interesting.  I only had tennis shoes and they, on the melting snow, were more like skies than anything else.  I started to slip and fall. 

...dozens of times.  I made very little progress and now was not only tired and cold, but also quite wet.

And, psychologically, rather than staying above it, I was starting to go...under.

Due to the melting, the snow path was less clear and increasingly I was sinking down to my knees in the depth of it.  My shoes were now soaked and I was having trouble pulling myself up.  In spite of Tami's active encouragement to keep going, Why am I doing this? was climbing over and sucking on my mind and I was sinking in more ways than one.  Looking back, I was probably in more trouble than I realized.

A couple of other hikers noticed my struggle and came over to offer assistance.  Slightly chagrinned, I accepted as they helped support my physical decline and guided me towards less challenging areas.  One in particular, Caden (see above), literally bent down to pick me up and hold me until I could go on.  He walked with us a ways further.  After we got past the tree line, he let me use his shoulder to take the big steps down the rocky trail.  He stepped into several muddy parts to provide more support for me.  In fact, he walked us (me) literally all the back to our car.

I marveled at his willingness to not do whatever he would have done if we weren't helping me.  We talked quite a bit (due to my slow, knee-pained pace) and learned a lot of his life-story (which was amazing in many ways...not unlike any of ours).  At one point, when I understood more of who he saw himself to be ("this is what I'm here for", he explained, "to help people"), I wondered about the timing of it all and how this circumstance could be much more than just a physical one (out of my sense of need, it felt like a spiritual one, too).  In describing the story to someone else, their response was that Cayden was a 'God-send'.

Though I have come to doubt such attributions more than I used to (a story for another day), I felt an accuracy about the attribution.  A guardian angel?  Maybe.

I have to admit I don't know much about the angelic realm — how often or how much it intervenes in ours.  But, I know that many people have believed in it across the spans of time.  And, I have never succeeded bifurcating the blend of both.  I have a latent degree of confidence that many unexplainable things are just that, unexplainable and that that does not eliminate the real possibility of multiple kinds of reality.

As time passes from the event, my rational mind imports more explanations.  Nonetheless, the circumstances point to something beyond where rationality seems to fall short, especially (and conspicuously) in times of need.

Do you believe in guardian angels?  When?  Why?

3 Observations & A Question

The more you do something, the more understand it.

We often pray for relief when, perhaps, what we should be praying more about is the contribution we’re making to our need of relief. 

It’s a shame if your perspective of the world is limited by your lack of experience of the world.

What keeps you on your toes?

Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

The Parade

-- Heather Cox Richardson, Letters from an American

We have no kings here, we have no queens here, we have no emperors, we have no dictators, we have no despots, and we have no serfs and no slaves and no subjects, and none of us is a subject to Donald Trump. None of us is a subject to Mike Johnson. We are all citizens, those of us who aspire and attain to public office are nothing but the servants of the people. And the minute that somebody in public office thinks that they're a king, they're a queen, they're an emperor, they're a dictator, that is time for the people to evict, eject, reject, impeach, try, convict, and start all over again, because the most important words of our Constitution are the three first words of the Constitution: ‘We the people.’

-- Jamie Raskin (D-MD), a constitutional scholar

Dad and Ron

From Michiana Chronicles: 

2025 has been a year of seismic shifts. The loss of two men I greatly loved, admired, and respected seemed to punctuate those changes for me. 

At the beginning of February, my childhood pastor, Ron Kennel, died. By the end of the month, my dad, Joe Krabill, was also gone. Ron was 81. Dad was 94, a little over two weeks away from celebrating his 95th birthday. When I was about two months old... continue here.

-- Tony Krabill

Another wonderful consideration on being a Dad: 

I'm taking piano lessons with my son

President of the United States: "Animals"?

Try as we may, we just can't avoid the escalating drama in our federal government.  This, in part, is due to what appears to be the intention — to create that drama.  Both by rhetoric and show of physical force, trying to ignore it is no longer an option.

Unbelievably, the President of the United States is making wholesale references to American citizens who protest as 'animals':

Trump calls L.A. protesters ‘animals,’ ‘foreign enemy’ in speech to recognize anniversary of the U.S. Army

The use of this term, in this context, is an overt attempt to pit those referred to against what would otherwise be the case. In other words, to describe human beings as animals is overtly dehumanizing.  Trump must think that doing so is effective – that it will garner something in the audience (as it has in the past by other leaders with a lust for power).

Further, and against that backdrop, it appears that anyone who protests (not just in LA) will be subject to "...very big force":

If there’s any protester wants to come out, they will be met with very big force…. For those people that want to protest, they’re going to be met with very big force.

-- Donald Trump

We didn't seem to take him seriously the first time around; will we now (maybe, we finally are)?  ...more facts / less theatre (a parade?!?) here and here.

Democracy is under assault right before our eyes. This moment we have feared has arrived. He’s taking a wrecking ball…to our founding fathers’ historic project: three coequal branches of independent government.

I know many of you are feeling deep anxiety, stress, and fear. But I want you to know that you are the antidote to that fear and that anxiety. What Donald Trump wants most is your fealty, your silence, to be complicit in this moment.  Do not give in to him.

-- Gavin Newsom

The correct way to connect the authoritarian presence in LA and the Big Beautiful Bill is that the bill gives the government the resources to do this in dozens of cities at once. So if you don't like what's happening in LA, it's coming to your town if the bill passes.

-- David Dayen, The American Prospect

For years to come, there are many people on the right, in the media and voters at large, that are going to be having to explain and justify how they fell into this trap of supporting Donald Trump. 

-- Marco Rubio

Reclaim Large Areas of Peace

Ultimately, we have just one moral duty; to reclaim large areas of peace in ourselves.

-- Etty Hillesum

While enduring the horrors of a concentration camp in 1943, Dutch author Etty Hillesum wrote these profound words in her diary. As she ruminated on the vital importance of remaining present in each day and banishing the worries of tomorrow from her spirit, Hillesum realized that the only thing we have control over is our own minds. If we can find peace within, we can make a difference in the lives of those around us.

Narrative

If you want to understand someone, figure out the narrative they tell themselves about themself.

If you want to change your behavior, change your narrative.

If you want to change someone else’s behavior, offer them a more compelling narrative they can tell themselves.

-- Shane Parrish

Nature of Change

I’m wondering…about the real nature of change in the world.

It seems we tend to largely think about change through a technological lens.  Certainly, technology has introduced some significant changes over the course of human history.

But, when you think about the nature of real change throughout human history, it seems that technology is more like a participant in something more significant.  Real change seems to dwell in the hearts of human-beings collectively (and individually).

We Can Become

Be careful not to dehumanize those you disagree with. In our self-righteousness, we can become the very things we criticize others…and not even know it.

-- Eugene Cho

4 Observations (from Others)

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.

-- Viktor Frankl

Comfort can be dangerous. Comfort provides a floor, but also a ceiling.

-- Trevor Noah

Action absorbs anxiety. Do Something.

-- Dan Harris 

The measure of a person is the congruence between their words and actions, their kindness, their confidence, and their decisiveness about who they are in the world and who they intend to remain. 

-- Peter Cundill

Prior 4 Observations (from Others).

On The Lighter Side: Time To Retire?

 On the Lighter Side:

Awareness

How aware are we?

It doesn’t take much observation to recognize that there’s a lot going on in life and in the world that we know very little (or nothing) about.  And, this may or may not necessarily be an indictment. We are creatures of our surroundings and, by implication, that means that whatever we’re not surrounded by likely will not impose itself on us very deeply.

For example, this observation should terrify most people. It also seems quite clear that most Republicans right now would scoff at it. And, the most likely reason is that most of these same people do not feel any impact from it, because their surroundings are relatively untouched by it. But, for those are more than touched by it, there is a pervasive sense of fear about it that dominates their lives.

We are in Colorado today visiting one of our kids and her family, for their one-year old’s birthday. And, like we were at that point in our lives, they are immersed in the surroundings of young family life (as they should be), perhaps without a ton of awareness of the kinds of things referenced in the observation above (probably good for them right now anyway). A baby’s awareness is highly focused at the beginning of their lives and expands as they grow and mature.  Their surroundings impact it a lot.  It is quite fascinating to watch this process in our 5 grandkids, each at different ages, contexts, and temperaments, even as doing so causes us to reflect on that of our own kids.

It seems important to recognize that awareness development doesn’t (or shouldn’t) stop once we arrive at adulthood.  It needs to continue, in order to cope with the world in a healthy way.  When it doesn’t, we can easily see all around us the susceptibilities that leak into the mix (not to mention the consequences).

My wife and I are at a different points in our lives now than where we were when we were younger with our own young family.  Accordingly, we have different kinds of bandwidths, than what our kids do at the moment, which allows us to maintain awareness of things like the above.  Even with more bandwidth now for certain things, our awareness is still quite limited, mostly by what our means allow us to experience (and not).  Unlike some people, we don’t have certain fears because of our position and resources in life.  And, we don’t have certain burdens for the same reasons.

By general disposition (personality, etc.), people seem to be more aware of certain things and less on other things. I feel more aware certain things, because of my nature and what I work on in my life, than my wife. Likewise, She also has more awareness of certain things than I do.

But, at some point, our lack of awareness is an issue, both interpersonally and with regard to the systems that impact our lives.  For example, we all have a sense that America is changing.  The question is in what ways and for what reasons.  Just hoping for the good ole’ days, isn’t awareness (in many cases, it’s actually closer to naïveté).  There are forces of self-interest and power that are heavily in play right now (whether we are aware of them or not), which require other forces to countermand them or they will prevail to significant effect for everyone.  When that happens, we will become truly aware of what has changed and how it actually does impact the surroundings of our lives.

At whatever point we happen to be in the courses of our existence, awareness is a valuable means of understanding the nature of that existence — not only for ourselves, but also for those whose surroundings (experiences), at any given moment, are different than ours.  

To that end, we have both an opportunity and an obligation to become increasingly…aware.

Inside Out

Change — real change — come from the inside out.

-- Stephen Covey

Our Best Interest At Heart

Trust is a biological reaction to the belief that someone has our best interest at heart.

-- Simon Sinek

How I'm Doing

I’ve noticed…that I have to get out of bed in the morning to more accurately assess how I'm doing.

Private Evacuation Plan

For many today, God is seen—and used—as a partner in our private evacuation plan more than any love encountered that transforms mind or liberates heart. This is revealed in the little, if any, concern that many Christians show for justice, the earth, or the poor. The fruits of love are often not apparent in them, and not even of much interest to many of them. 

 -- Richard Rohr

3 Observations & A Question

Life seems to require persistence.

Just as there are often benefits, there are also limitations to nearly any system.

You can become so good (so focused, that is) at the way you see things that you no longer notice that other people are equally as good at the way that they see things.

When do you ask if this is good — when you do, do you also ask for whom?

Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

Authoritarian Playbook

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37 out 47 items from the Project 2025 playbook are actively underway....

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U.S. District Judge Tanya Chutkan ruled that 14 states can proceed with their lawsuit against billionaire Elon Musk and the “Department of Government Efficiency.” The administration had tried to dismiss the case, but Chutkan ruled the states had adequately supported their argument that “Musk and DOGE’s conduct is ‘unauthorized by any law.’”

The Constitution does not permit the Executive to commandeer the entire appointments power by unilaterally creating a federal agency…and insulating its principal officer from the Constitution as an ‘advisor’ in name only.

-- Tanya Chutkan, U.S. District Judge