The Gates of Hope

My 'poem selection' for the week -- "The Gates of Hope":

Our mission is to plant ourselves at the gates of Hope—
Not the prudent gates of Optimism,
Which are somewhat narrower.
Not the stalwart, boring gates of Common Sense;
Nor the strident gates of Self-Righteousness,
Which creak on shrill and angry hinges
(People cannot hear us there; they cannot pass through)
Nor the cheerful, flimsy garden gate of
“Everything is gonna’ be all right.”
But a different, sometimes lonely place,
The place of truth-telling,
About your own soul first of all and its condition.
The place of resistance and defiance,
The piece of ground from which you see the world
Both as it is and as it could be
As it will be;
The place from which you glimpse not only struggle,
But the joy of the struggle.
And we stand there, beckoning and calling,
Telling people what we are seeing
Asking people what they see.

-- Victoria Safford

Voyage Into It

Christianity is not an explanation of mystery, but rather a voyage into it.

-- Alan Jones

The Lie

Discovered Blessing

Many Friday mornings now, I look forward to 3 things:

- a good coffee
- a cranberry scone
- a new edition of Michiana Chronicles

I'm not sure how each of the above influences the other, but I'm suspecting they do.  On Fridays, I have noticed that I am almost instinctively moving a bit more quickly through my morning routines to be ready by 7:45a...with my undetected motivation, the hearing of the latest edition of MC.

I wonder about how good writing works and how it is enhanced by the physical speaking of it.  It seems creative use of words to describe something both earthy and transcendent at the same time is powerful in its reach into us.  It helps me imagine things familiar to me, but not yet identified.  It blesses me with the real, and the possible.  I love the sense of internal attention it creates in me.  It allows me to wonder how I can be that for someone else that day.  I am enriched.  ...a discovered blessing.

Neuroplasticity

The idea of neuroplasticity is simply that the brain changes in response to experience. It changes in response to our actions. It changes in our response to our relationships. It changes in response to specific training. These activities will shape the brain, and we can take advantage of neuroplasticity and actually play a more intentional role in shaping our own brains in ways that may be health promoting, and ways that can cultivate well being.

-- Daniel Goleman

I Used To Think: Very Little

I used to think...that people's behaviors towards or reactions to me were because of something wrong in me. Now I know that most of the time, those have very little even to do with me.

Possibilities

In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities, in the expert's mind there are few.

-- Shunryu Suzuki

This concept needs to soak a bit....

The more we think or do something, the more familiar we become with it,  The more familiar we become with something, the more we tend to start holding on to our notions of it -- what we think we are are seeing or have already seen.  I see this in the smallest areas of our lives up through what we accept at even a societal level.  More problematic, perhaps, is that when we're doing this, we also tend not to see other things  -- problems with what we are used to, new ideas, etc. -- because we're looking for evidence of things we've already become accustomed to.

As we age, maintaining a beginner's mind feels like it takes more and more effort.  Perhaps it does.  On the other hand, keeping such a mindset may be part of what can keep us open, excited, curious...younger.

Regular Exercise Changes The Brain To Improve Memory, Thinking Skills

There are plenty of good reasons to be physically active. Big ones include reducing the odds of developing heart disease, stroke, and diabetes. Maybe you want to lose weight, lower your blood pressure, prevent depression, or just look better. Here’s another one, which especially applies to those of us (including me) experiencing the brain fog that comes with age: exercise changes the brain in ways that protect memory and thinking skills.  Continue here....

-- Heidi Godman

...I'm off to clear my 'fog'.

Blasphemous Assault

One reason why people are uncomfortable with tears and the sight of suffering is that it is a blasphemous assault on their precariously maintained American spirituality of the pursuit of happiness.  They want to avoid evidence that things are not right with the world as it is -- with Jesus, without love, without faith...It is a lot easier to keep the American faith if they don't have to look into the face of suffering....

So learning the language of lament is not only necessary to restore Christian dignity to suffering and repentance and death; it is necessary to provide a Christian witness to a world that has no language for and is therefore oblivious to the glories of wilderness and the cross.

-- Eugene Peterson

Makenzie's friend, Rylei, shared this with us after church last week...where we talking about the role of suffering in our lives.

The Anxieties of Impotence

The Republican establishment thinks the grass roots have the power but the grass roots think the reverse. The unions think the corporations have the power but the corporations think the start-ups do. Regulators think Wall Street has the power but Wall Street thinks the regulators do.  

In a different way, the American election has been perverted by feelings of powerlessness. 

Plagued by the anxiety of impotence many voters are drawn to leaders who pretend that our problems could be solved by defeating some villain. Donald Trump says stupid elites are the problem. Ted Cruz says it’s the Washington cartel. Bernie Sanders says it’s Wall Street.  Continue here...

-- David Brooks

As a society, we are beset by our nearly universal sense of powerlessness.  So, these days (by our politicians), we seem entranced by those who are trying to persuade us that they can do something about it.  But, we are distracted...by an incomplete, inaccurate sense of what real power is.  What will it take for us to rediscover real power?

Mutation

My 'Friday poem' selection for the week -- "Sonnet -- Mutation":

They talk of short-lived pleasure—be it so—
Pain dies as quickly: stern, hard-featured pain
Expires, and lets her weary prisoner go.
The fiercest agonies have shortest reign;
And after dreams of horror, comes again
The welcome morning with its rays of peace.
Oblivion, softly wiping out the stain,
Makes the strong secret pangs of shame to cease:
Remorse is virtue’s root; its fair increase
Are fruits of innocence and blessedness:
Thus joy, o’erborne and bound, doth still release
His young limbs from the chains that round him press.
Weep not that the world changes—did it keep
A stable changeless state, ’twere cause indeed to weep.

-- William Cullen Bryant

Is Right

Pride is concerned with who is right. Humility is concerned with what is right.

-- Ezra Taft Benson

I Have Noticed: What I Offer

I have noticed...that I temper what I offer of myself to others based on how I sense it will be received. I am still learning how to offer what I feel led to offer without a heavy filter of how it will be received.

Hatred of Being Alone

All men’s misfortunes spring from their hatred of being alone.

-- Jean de la Bruyere

Among other things, I'm pondering what the motivation of urgency is?

Discover Our Soul

It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.

-- Archbishop Desmond Tutu

Older

Older, more experienced Christians often have greater troubles, temptations, and difficulties in the world. God has new work for them to do. He now plans that all the graces they have, be used in new and harder ways. They may not find their spiritual desires to be as strong as before or have such delight in spiritual duties as they had before. Because of this, they feel that grace has dried up in them. They do not know where they are or what they are.  But in spite of all this, the real work of sanctification is still thriving in them, and the Holy Spirit is still working effectively in them. God is faithful. Therefore, let us cling to our hope without wavering.

-- John Owen

My father faces heart surgery tomorrow. I wonder what he would say with regard to faith, in the face of the difficulties of aging.  My guess is, from what I have heard him say, that God is indeed faithful.  It strikes me that our sense of faith increases, as our weaknesses increase with age.

When I'm Gone

Nothing like the combination of a brilliant winter morning and a really good cry...the gripping story of a fight with cancer at This Life I Live.

Limitations

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "Limitations":

The subtlest strain a great musician weaves,
Cannot attain in rhythmic harmony
To music in his soul. May it not be
Celestial lyres send hints to him? He grieves
That half the sweetness of the song, he leaves
Unheard in the transition. Thus do we
Yearn to translate the wondrous majesty
Of some rare mood, when the rapt soul receives
A vision exquisite. Yet who can match
The sunset’s iridescent hues? Who sing
The skylark’s ecstasy so seraph-fine?
We struggle vainly, still we fain would catch
Such rifts amid life’s shadows, for they bring
Glimpses ineffable of things divine.

-- Henrietta Cordelia Ray

Winter

I learned long ago that winter will drive you crazy until you get out into it — and I mean “winter” both literally and metaphorically.

-- Parker Palmer

I Used To Think: Self-Defense

I used to think...that I needed to defend myself.  Now I know that God will defend whatever really needs defended in me.

Silence

There can be such a sacred beauty to silence.

We sat for a few moments in church on Sunday in prayerful silence; a pondering of the soul with God.  It seemed like time stood still.  The normal lurking of awkwardness was arrested and I wished it could have gone on forever.

MLK Day: Charles Person

I have decided to stick with love, hate is too great a burden to bear.

-- Martin Luther King, Jr.

We are so grateful for the opportunity to hear and meet Freedom-Rider Charles Person today.  His sacrifice years ago is still making a difference.

It is easy to enjoy someone famous.  It is harder to be the kind of person that Charles was and continues to be.  What will I yet stand for?  How will I do so?

On Worry

A great many people do now seem to think that the mere state of being worried is in itself meritorious. I don’t think it is. We must, if it so happens, give our lives for others: but even while we’re doing it, I think we’re meant to enjoy Our Lord and, in Him, our friends, our food, our sleep, our jokes, and the birds’ song and the frosty sunrise.

-- C.S. Lewis, from The Collected Letters, Volume II, Compiled in Words to Live By

Interview With A Toddler

Rejection

Rejection has a powerful grip on us.
It so easily slays us.
It is unyielding in its pursuit of us.
Its threat is ever-present,
even if only in a lurking way.

We are so in need of acceptance.
We will demand it, if needed.
We, ourselves, will even reject the ungiver of it.
We will use the very thing
that hurts us so.

Stop Looking

Sometimes, in order to find something, you have to stop looking for it.

Do Not Handicap

So it's searchable:

Do not handicap your children by making their lives easy.

-- Robert Heinlein

I Have Noticed: Relationships

I have noticed...that I need to put myself in and pursue relationships with people.

I seem to stop growing when I choose not to.

You're Right

Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.

-- Henry Ford

Comforters

God does not comfort us to make us comfortable only, but to make us comforters.

-- John Henry Jowett


Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

-- Luke 6:38

Angela Merkel

See story here....

What informs such character, such compassion?  I continue to wonder if one can only understand poverty, if one has experienced it.  Poverty takes on many forms, so it's not that our opportunities to embrace it are limited.

So it's searchable:

I'm surprised at how faint-hearted we sometimes are, and how quickly we lose courage.

-- Angela Merkel

Winter Leafage

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "Winter Leafage":

Each year I mark one lone outstanding tree,
Clad in its robings of the summer past,
Dry, wan, and shivering in the wintry blast.
It will not pay the season’s rightful fee,—
It will not set its frost-burnt leafage free;
But like some palsied miser all aghast,
Who hoards his sordid treasure to the last,
It sighs, it moans, it sings in eldritch glee.
A foolish tree, to dote on summers gone;
A faithless tree, that never feels how spring
Creeps up the world to make a leafy dawn,
And recompense for all despoilment bring!
Oh, let me not, heyday and youth withdrawn,
With failing hands to their vain semblance cling!

-- Edith Matilda Thomas

I Used To Think: My Weakness

I used to think...that you needed to be strong to help carry things for people. Now I know that we often are able to help others the most by acknowledging our weaknesses.

Choices Reflect

May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.

-- Nelson Mandela

I Have Noticed: A Recoiling

I have noticed...that I tend to recoil when personalities get 'large'.

My withdrawal, veiled as it may be, perhaps is an attempt to avoid something -- an association?  A co-opting?  A sense of something even in myself that I disdain when I join that kind of competition for attention.

Weren't Actual Decisions

One paper published by a Duke University researcher in 2006 found that more than 40 percent of the actions people performed each day weren’t actual decisions, but habits.

-- Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit

I'm thinking about my habits, and what I want them to be in a new year.  I going to go for one; one habit I want to change this year -- to stop doing something, to start doing something....

Slow Process

In a world addicted to 'fast', here's simple truth about 'slow':

TO KEITH MANSHIP: On the slow process of being more in Christ; and on doing one’s duty, especially the duty to enjoy.

You state the problem clearly, and the fact that you can do so really shows that you are very much on the right road. Many don’t even get so far.

The whole problem of our life was neatly expressed by John the Baptist when he said (John, chap 3, v. 30) ‘He must increase, but I must decrease.’ This you have realised. But you are expecting it to happen suddenly: and also expecting that you should be clearly aware when it does. But neither of these is usual. We are doing well enough if the slow process of being more in Christ and less in ourselves has made a decent beginning in a long life (it will be completed only in the next world). Nor can we observe it happening. All our reports on ourselves are unbelievable, even in worldly matters (no one really hears his own voice as others do, or sees his own face). Much more in spiritual matters. God sees us, and we don’t see ourselves. And by trying too hard to do so, we only get the fidgets and become either too complacent or too much the other way.

Your question what to do is already answered. Go on (as you apparently are going on) doing all your duties. And, in all lawful ways, go on enjoying all that can be enjoyed—your friends, your music, your books. Remember we are told to ‘rejoice’ [Philippians 4:4]. Sometimes when you are wondering what God wants you to do, He really wants to give you something.

As to your spiritual state, try my plan. I pray ‘Lord, show me just so much (neither more nor less) about myself as I need for doing thy will now.’

-- C.S. Lewis, from The Collected Letters, Volume III, Compiled in Yours, Jack

A good reminder heading into a new year....

The Top 6 Good-News Stories of 2015

This is a tough time to feel optimistic about the future. With the notable exception of impressive global cooperation on climate change and energy, our papers and screens have been dominated for months by stories about terrorism and war. But this barrage of negative stories is obscuring the full picture of what’s happening around the world.  Continue here....

-- Bill Gates

What I Want In A New Year

Tami  and I have been talking about the new year -- what we would want in it, what it might bring to us, what to pursue, what to be willing to wait for.   Though sometimes cloaked, I think at the heart of resolutions is really our desires; things we hope will change, things we wish would happen, things we most deeply want in our lives and in the lives of those we love.

When I read good books I am really drawn to, I often end up, at one point or another, thinking I should be more like the person writing the book.  I have even tried to be like them a few times.  What we feel more drawn to heading into this year is what we should more uniquely become ourselves, rather than trying to be more like someone else.  I want to pursue more of what God is calling me to be, which could look like someone I've recently read about or, perhaps more likely, something that is uniquely related to how I am made or to what is (or gets put) right in front of me.  There are some 'doing' things I want to consider, as well as increasing opportunity for me to simply offer compassion to those around me.

We agreed to prayerfully watch for such opportunities as we begin a new year...which may be more like what I noted at the beginning of 2015 than anything else.

2015

Wow, what a year 2015 has been!  The last few, I have enjoyed reviewing Saturday Mornings entries throughout the year -- I am grateful for the reminder of some of the distances traveled, physically and in the heart. Here are some of my 2015 favorites:

December: Why I Like Taking Pictures I Wanted Peace Stop Chasing	June: The Speech Of The Sky One Father Week Of The Bride, Pt. 6
November: Gratitude: Thru the Imperfect Desperate Bravery	May: Not What's Really Important Unrequited Love You Think You Know
October: Space Readies Us Disappointment Liberates	April: UN- Does Sexual Orientation Equal Identity? Good Friday
September: Surrounded By Love Caine's Arcade No Real Substitute	March: Hatred And The Holocaust How We Lose Our Way Interior Stability
August: Perils Alone  Delight? Other Way Around	February: Chicago:  The Ribbon Begins To Die Neglecting Time
July: What Is Love? Largely Through What Happens Natural Response	January: Who We Really Are Silence:  Fear Of What It Has To Say Instead

Duty To Act

​Those who have the privilege to know have the duty to act.

-- Albert Einstein

I Used To Think: Extend Goodness

On our recent Christmas Cruise, I read parts of a couple of books.  One was, Love Does, by Bob Goff.  What a wonderful read.  He would start most chapters with the phrase, "I used to think..." and then go on to talk about something that he has learned.

I was running early this morning and was, ironically, feeling a little sorry for myself.  How could I feel this way, coming off of our great week last week?  I started talking to God about it and I believe he pointed me to my own, "I used to think...".

I used to think that I needed to receive goodness and keep receiving goodness, now I recognize that what I really need is to extend goodness.

We have had chances to do that a few times in the last few months and I can see that in so doing I have received all the goodness I need...by extending it to others.

Most Recognizable

Sometimes, gifts from God are most easily recognizable through the hands of people.  Perhaps this is why he asks us to give them.

Election

Election of one is not the rejection of the rest, but ultimately for their benefit. It is as if a group of trapped cave explorers choose one of their number to squeeze through a narrow flooded passage to get out to the surface and call for help. The point of the choice is not so that she alone gets saved, but that she is able to bring help and equipment to ensure the rest get rescued. “Election” in such a case is an instrumental choice of one for the sake of many.

In the same way, God’s election of Israel is instrumental in God’s mission for all nations. Election needs to be seen as a doctrine of mission, not a calculus for the arithmetic of salvation. If we are to speak of being chosen, of being among God’s elect, it is to say that, like Abraham, we are chosen for the sake of God’s plan that the nations of the world come to enjoy the blessing of Abraham (which is exactly how Paul describes the effect of God’s redemption of Israel through Christ in Gal. 3: 14).

-- Christopher J. H. Wright, "The Mission of God's People"

...thanks, Jim, for passing this one along.

Christmas Cruise

Speaking of gifts...my parents are turning 75 in 2016 and decided to celebrate by taking all of us on a cruise!  We are so grateful, not only for the opportunity to receive so lavishly from them, but for their lives of love towards us over all these years.  We are blessed beyond our knowledge and grateful for the goodness God has given us through them.  Some pics here....

Is There Any Room?

A Christmas prayer:

Stir up thy power, O God and Father,
and with great might come among us;
and because we are solely hindered by our sins,
let thy bountiful grace and mercy
speedily help and deliver us;
teach us your joy
and may the Spirit find room
to produce your joy in our hearts.
through Jesus Christ our Lord,
with Thee and the Holy Spirit, one God
be honor and glory forever.
Amen.

Is there room in my heart this Christmas...for the Spirit to work?

A Hallelujah Christmas

Gifts vs Presents

This Christmas, I want to give more gifts than presents.

Take a listen to these reflections on gifts.

You Are Not Alone; A Sermon on Mary, Elizabeth, and Being Given One to Another

A delightfully human sermon for us all, this time of year

You Are Not Alone; A Sermon on Mary, Elizabeth, and Being Given One to Another

Thanks, Vicky, for sending to me!

As Human

​Great leaders don't see themselves as great; they see themselves as human.

-- Simon Sinek

Angels We Have Heard On High

This Proves How Wrong Leaders Can Be

Don’t be fooled.

Throughout history, every generation believes it understands how our world works. And yet we look back and realize that many conventional beliefs were wrong. Today I’d like to share a story that makes my skin crawl because it illustrates just how wrong our leaders can be, even when their own personal safety is at issue.  

George Washington was President of the United States from 1789 to 1797. On December 12, 1799, he was back to private life and spent about four hours on horseback supervising farming activities. The weather went from rain to hail to snow, and Washington was wet when he returned home. By the next morning, he had a sore throat. 24 hours later, the throat infection was so severe that he was having trouble breathing.

This was when Washington asked George Rawlins, an overseer at Mount Vernon, to bleed him...continue here....

-- Bruce Kasanoff

Lullaby for Anyone

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "Lullaby for Anyone":

Excuse me, lover. I’m busy foretelling
and protesting your end. Whether I hunt,
gather, barter, or sell, what I worry over

is the order: live oaks, shorelines,
wide-eyed and flammable
creature I adore. By day, I admit

no shadow as backup: crow, please keep
your clever forensics. What would I do
with a cardboard guitar, a map of the planets,

and a box of building blocks,
alone? Another bereavement
I haven’t unlearned: to bury one hope

inside another, and I, having made a home
of limbo (I keep a black hole more spotless
than cozy), once traveled through time

at will, invisible. Now, not so free. My beloved
grows heavier, hardier, heavenward.
Certain grief pre-scorches me.

-- Stephanie Ford

We Will Change

​We will change when it hurts bad enough not to.

Do You Hear What I Hear?

Got me again (even if a bit enhanced this time).

Last Thing

The last thing we learn about ourselves is our effect.

-- William Boyd

All Problems Stem

All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.

-- Blaise Pascal, Pensées

Mary, Did You Know?

...adapted from one my favorite songs on the significance of the Christmas Story, Mary's Song in Luke 1.

Depression: The Struggle None of Us Want to Talk About

There can be a great collision this time of year...where the Christmas-card version of the lives we may want smash up against the realities of our deeper aches in life. I was grateful to find this:

I don’t like talking about depression much, because I want my life to look together. I want to sound smart and my kids to obey the first time and for my marriage to be a beacon for all others who follow in my marriage’s glorious light.

I’m scared to let anyone in on the secret because then the gig would be up.  Continue here....

-- Lisa Gungor

I am grateful for this quote from the reading referenced above:

We don’t know what to do with our own weakness but pretend it doesn’t exist…how can we welcome fully the weakness of another if we haven’t welcomed our own weakness?

-- Jean Vanier

I Wanted Peace

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "I Wanted Peace":

​I wanted peace
without pain,
but it is through the pain
that I crave Your presence
and therein lies peace

-- Lynelle Watford

At a time when it seems there is so much fear, it seems fitting that we acknowledge what was announced to us long ago:  PEACE.

Of all the things that could have been said by heaven to earth, why this?  We have acquired a new nature, not one designed by God, and it is fear.  We are almost now even naturally afraid.  We are afraid even of our fellow man, not to mention the times when man encounters the supernatural like they did in this story.  Man seems to be almost always instinctively afraid of God.  And, so, God seems to pretty regularly announce himself first with words designed to off-set our fear.

Perhaps he knows the energy of fear is to act, in self-protection inwardly or by striking outwardly.  Perhaps he also knows that this nearly instinctive response is really what perpetuates the very energy of fear itself.  Fear in fact is nothing substantive, it is the object of our fear that grips us.

So God simply pre-empts our actions-of-fear by proclaiming something in front of it, before we can react, by announcing 'peace'.  And, perhaps, this is the greatest gift we have as well, to announce and live peace to those around us -- to live in good will to men.  As God's presence is experienced in us, as peace, so we can be present with others.

Stop Chasing

​When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.

-- Lolly Daskal

Fundamental Turn

Big parts of life will take a fundamental turn once we stop trying to get harmful things to make us feel better and turn our attention to God, taking how we feel to him instead.

This is not to imply a guarantee that by doing so, things will get better...though they certainly might.  But the significant part is the turning, on our part, the entrusting of ourselves to God, because we learn best about ourselves in relationship with the one in whose image we are made.

Thief of Time

Procrastination is the thief of time, collar him.

-- Charles Dickens

When It Isn't Shared

What is the value of something when it isn't shared?

Noel

What a voice! What a song for the heart of this season...what a truth!

Why I Like Taking Pictures

Rujida, a friend of mine, said she was thinking about why she likes to take pictures.  She asked me why I like taking pictures.  Thinking about her question, I saw this photo by Eastlyn Bright.

I think my answer to her question is a bit difficult to describe...because there is a kind of mystery to it.  Just like a photograph itself, describing something doesn't capture the whole of it.  For me, a photograph captures something.  It slows something down about life.  It creates a moment, lifting it out of all the surrounding moments that often just end up running together.  A photo is always, in fact, something that has already happened.  And, perhaps because of that, it teases us with the possibility that the captured thing might happen again...even though it, in an of itself, is over.  A photograph is an attempt to preserve something, a memory.  

A photo, like the one above, can create a longing for its content, or something like it, to happen again.  A photo can create hope (future), in an ironic way, from a memory (past).

I am drawn to beauty.  I have encountered a quality of beauty that almost always makes me want to share it with someone else.  Taking photos is a way I enjoy of doing this.

Permanence

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "Permanence":

Permanence we have already,
 Though we act as if we don’t;
 And miss many a gratitude
 To honor the Body loan’t

-- Tim Koshnick

Productivity Killer

Avoid multitasking. It's a real productivity killer. Research conducted at Stanford University confirms that multitasking is less productive than doing a single thing at a time. The researchers found that people who are regularly bombarded with several streams of electronic information cannot pay attention, recall information or switch from one job to another as well as those who complete one task at a time.

-- Travis Bradberry

Without Feedback

One function of feedback is that it can be used to shape how you want to be.  This can be a helpful strategy for navigating life.

But, there comes a time when you have to learn to trust something, without the benefit of feedback to reinforce your sense of things.  You are forced to rely on something else, within yourself -- to live with the consequences of your own choices...to learn from them, rather than relying tentatively on feedback to move forward.

It seems to me like I am in one of those 'times'.

Do To Yourself

​Education is what others do to you 
while Learning is what you do to yourself.

-- Joichi Ito

Illiterate

The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.

-- Alvin Toffler

Outside

I need times in the morning outside, to settle into myself, into the things around me. To claw my way past the debris that seems to collect around me, to open myself up to words, to hear afresh from a source within me. It is a time that reminds me who I am. ...like an internal clock, a rhythm within myself, a kind of following God, in a uniquely Dana (personal) way.

I am learning a new way of knowing life, not as much anymore from the things I do, but from something else. My times outside help me listen for the voice of my new teacher.

"No Game More Important!"

...and Conner and Blake will be there!

Our Pocket Opens

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "Our Pocket Opens":

Our burdens are our rocks, 
and rocks come in different sizes 
just as our burdens do. 

When we  carry a rock 
around all day, we try 
to put it in our pocket. 

Our hearts have pockets 
for our rocks, our burdens. 
The bigger the burden 
the bigger the pocket
in our heart. 

Every time we tell someone 
our burden, our pocket opens.

-- Gynnae Hochstetler

Gratitude: Through The Imperfect

So it's searchable:

Trying to be perfect
  ends in burn-out.
Being grateful
  though the imperfect
    lights hearts on fire.

-- Ann Voskamp, A Holy Experience

...let this one settle into a deep spot and juice a bit (like today's Turkey). It might be true that perfection is almost always a thief of thankfulness.  In fact, our imperfection only seems to illuminate our sense of gratitude.

Gratitude: Turns What We Have Into Enough

Gratitude turns what we have into enough and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity...it makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

-- Melody Beattie

Gratitude: A True Measure

Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.

-- W.T. Purkiser

Gratitude: Beauty

Quite a gift to us all this weekend...I am so grateful for beauty and the pleasure of enjoying it.  It can just as easily bring us to our knees as anything else.  What a way to start Thanksgiving Week!

Desperate

Pain is a gift. It puts us in a position where we’re quicker to be desperate for God. When we seek him, we will find him.

-- Lauren Scruggs

The tragically short half-life of online empathy

Everything’s accelerated these days, and the same must be said for grief online. The Internet cycles through all five stages in as many tweets. We find it hurtling toward us: unavoidable, wall-to-wall.

And then, before we’ve processed it, the grief’s already gone.  Continue....

-- Caitlin Dewey

MY PATH FOR YOU

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "MY PATH FOR YOU":

Though rocky and steep
and sore at times, 
this is my path for you.

Though the winds are
fierce and chill the bone,
this is my path for you.

Keep your eyes on me
and not your dreams
or other paths some trod

Affirm your trust 
in all my ways,
this is my path for you.

-- Lynelle Watford

Not Failure, But The Belief

It is not failure that stops most people, but rather the belief that failure is permanent.

-- Jake Ducey

Your Past Becomes Your Present

Where you focus your attention determines your emotional state. When you fixate on the problems that you’re facing, you create and prolong negative emotions which hinder your ability to reach your goals. When you focus on the actions you'll take to better yourself and your circumstances, you create a sense of personal efficacy that produces positive emotions and improves performance.

Failure can erode your self-confidence and make it hard to believe you’ll achieve a better outcome in the future. Most of the time, failure results from taking risks and trying to achieve something that isn’t easy. Success lies in your ability to rise in the face of failure, and you can’t do this when you’re living in the past. Anything worth achieving is going to require you to take some risks, and you can’t allow failure to stop you from believing in your ability to succeed. When you live in the past, that is exactly what happens, and your past becomes your present, preventing you from moving forward.

-- Travis Bradberry

It is easy to presume that such things apply to other people (not me).  I'm asking myself today where I have let a sense of failure over something in the past prevent me from choosing something again now.  Are there things I want that I am avoiding now, simply because it didn't turn out exactly as I had hoped it would?  What if I just need to try again?  What if I can learn something of value each time I simply try again?  What do I really have to lose anyway?

​If You Want Something

​If you want something, you often have to focus in order to get it.

Make Me

What I need is someone who will make me do what I can.

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Kills All Others

The fear of God kills all other fears.

-- Hugh Black

Fully Applying

​There may be no greater joy than that which comes from fully applying (giving) oneself to something...or someone.

When I am stuck in a (joyless) loop, could it be that I'm not really giving myself to anything?  That I'm not taking any risks?  That I'm waiting on everyone else to do something?  Such cycles are self-encapsulating.

Want joy?  Go give yourself to something, besides yourself.  ...so what if you get hurt, you're hurting anyway (in your loop), right?  You may find a surprise or two...or many (even if it still hurts a little).

Cheerfulness Taught by Reason

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "Cheerfulness Taught by Reason":

I think we are too ready with complaint
In this fair world of God’s. Had we no hope
Indeed beyond the zenith and the slope
Of yon gray blank of sky, we might be faint
To muse upon eternity’s constraint
Round our aspirant souls. But since the scope
Must widen early, is it well to droop,
For a few days consumed in loss and taint?
O pusillanimous Heart, be comforted,—
And, like a cheerful traveller, take the road—
Singing beside the hedge. What if the bread
Be bitter in thine inn, and thou unshod
To meet the flints?—At least it may be said,
“Because the way is short, I thank thee, God!”

-- Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Minimum Wage

I don't know exactly how I feel about the current $15 / hr minimum wage debate — lots of ramifications economically and socially.  As an employer of minimum wage employees, $15 / hr would substantially affect our margins.  If I were an employee, I would think it very difficult to exist on current minimum wage levels.

The sides of the current debate about this seem to be highly influenced by where you are starting from.  How do wages impact our views of life?  Would more money for the same work be better?  Or, would it disincentivize a person from growing and becoming capable of more contribution?  How is value monetized?  How should it be?  How does what executives make relative to minimum wage workers impact these questions?

We all have a tendency to use research as a drunkard uses a lamp-post — for support, but not for illumination.

-- David Ogilvy

The Tyranny of Financial Insecurity

Within six months, we lost the beautiful house on 2 and a half acres on a hill overlooking a valley, where we had lived for 17 years. We lost our cars. We lost virtually every material thing we had, moved to a small rental way out in the woods (where I began writing The Shack) and six months later into the smaller rental in Gresham where we live. Most of this time I have worked at least three jobs (jobs that Papa brought along) just to put food on the table and pay the bills.

This is the time of our lives when we learned that the opposite of “more” is “enough.”

But today I am free! Our time in Gresham has been one of the greatest times of spiritual growth in our family. Our kids had to make huge changes and they did with open hearts. I have no fear of money or financial security anymore. The imaginations of the future are gone and I have learned to live in the truth of the present, where Jesus dwells with me. There is nothing like losing everything to heal you of the fear and to learn that you have enough, each day. My life is full of joy.

-- Wm. Paul Young

This observation stands out to me: "There is nothing like losing everything to heal you of the fear and to learn that you have enough, each day."  More here....

Ready

​I seem to be much more ready retroactively, than I am proactively.

...there is something contradictory in this statement.

Arrogance

Does arrogance have a scent? I smell something....

If I Wanted To Tell You...I Would Have

From Peter Enns, The Bible Tells Me So: Why Defending Scripture Has Made Us Unable to Read It.

Bravery

Bravery is for the people who have no choice, people like Chesley Sullenberger and Audie Murphy.

Bravery is for the people who are gifted, people like Ralph Abernathy, Sarah Kay and Miles Davis.

Bravery is for the people who are called, people like Abraham Lincoln,  Rosa Parks and Mother Theresa.

Bravery is for other people.

When you see it that way, it's so clearly and patently absurd that it's pretty clear that bravery is merely a choice.

At least once in your life (maybe this week, maybe today) you did something that was brave and generous and important. 

The only question is one of degree... when will we care enough to be brave again?

-- Seth Godin

This, coupled with the brilliance of this crisp Fall morning, makes me want to be brave again today.

After The Disaster

My 'Friday Poem' selection for the week -- "After The Disaster":

A picnic in the sequoias, light
filtered into planes, and the canopy
cut through. Fire raged in that place
one month ago. Since I’d been there,
I’d have to see it burning.
Nature of events to brush
against us like the leaves
of aspens brush against each
other in a grove full of them
carved with the initials
of people from the small weird town
hikers only like for gas. Messages
get past borders—water
across the cut stem of the sent
sunflower alive with good
intentions. People who mistake
clarity for certainty haven’t learned
that listening isn’t taking
a transcript, it’s not speech
the voice longs for, it’s something
deeper inside the throat.
Now, from the beginning, recite
the alphabet of everything
you should have wanted, silverware,
a husband, a house to live in
like a castle, but I wanted
fame among the brave.
A winter night in desert light:
trucks carving out air-corridors
of headlight on the interstate
at intervals only a vigil
could keep. Constellations
so clean you can see
the possibilities denied.
Talking about philosophy
might never be dinner
but can return
your body to a state
of wonder before sleep.
The night reduced us
to our elements.
I wanted water, and whatever
found itself unborn
in me to stay alive.

-- Katie Peterson

"...mistake clarity for certainty...",
"...listening isn't taking a transcript...",
"...so clean you can see the possibilities denied.",
"...whatever found itself unborn in me to stay alive."

...SO much to bask in, in this one.

Places

I seem to be more my right size when I am out in nature.  I can see that more clearly in such places.  When I am not there, I often seem to feel a need to be something bigger...in the other places, where the economies of man seem to be more in play.

Fall Tree Of The Day

Attention is the beginning of devotion.

-- Mary Oliver

...and a reminder that it is often from the forced-attention of the unfamiliar that some of the best surprises (and devotions) come!

More pics from this stunning Fall here....

Something Unfamiliar

​There is nothing like deep, extended travel into something unfamiliar to illuminate a new understanding .

Running In the Dark

I seem to be in a season now where things feel tome like trying to run in the dark -- like I did this morning, along a familiar, but very unlit route.  I was often feeling like I was going to run into something, to the point where I actually had to stop a couple of times.  Occasionally, I even feared something jumping out at me...despite that it never has before.  It is interesting what deep darkness does to the senses...and our internals.

Like the familiar aroma of the season of Fall, I smell the one that comes from an internal disquiet I feel these days. It is unfamiliar; I am uncertain...unilluminated.

When

So it's searchable:

When I said, "My foot is slipping,"
  your unfailing love, Lord, supported me.
When anxiety was great within me,
  your consolation brought me joy.

-- Psalm 94:18-19