Thursday, November 30, 2023

Deeper Powers


Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging.

-- Joseph Campbell

Wednesday, November 29, 2023

Access To Rather Than Possession Of

Christianity has access to the answer. 

The problem is, a lot of it right now really doesn’t understand the question.  

And, because of that, it morphs from having access to the answer to believing it has the answer.  This is an oft undetectable, but not so subtle, shift because there is a fundamental difference in how this works itself out — not the least of which is the humility with which it effectively operates.  Humility lends itself to the questions that need to continue to be asked.  Answers as a possession, rather than something we have access to, are too often heading away from humility and towards something else...much of which would not be characteristic of biblical Christianity.

Nationalism (with a small 'n') is simply a thing and not automatically bad — simply a mechanism for appropriate pride in one's country.  Nationalism with a capital 'N', however, is generally not a good thing because of all what tends to become involved in relation to other nations and, thereby, to itself.  History has well-informed us about its vagaries (and, apparently, still does).

Combining a basic misunderstanding of Christianity with Nationalism (capital N) is often, then, a terrible thing.  We don't have to look around very much to see how true this is.

A Christian does not, in the end, have power (or even desire it); a Christian has access to power...and is, thereby, a conduit of it.  It is much more of a dependency, than it is a solution (especially when wielded against others — something that is diametrically opposed to true Christianity).

May we increasingly become aware of who we are (and, who we are not), for the sake of the answer...and those questioning it.

Tuesday, November 28, 2023

Recognize & Respond

The skill of emotional intelligence is simply the ability to recognize your feelings and understand how you’re responding to them — and do it without judging yourself.

-- Susan David, Ph.D.

Monday, November 27, 2023

Self-Conscious

I’ve noticed...a fatal-flaw in my personal psychology — self-consciousness.  

Self-consciousness is not self-awareness; it's self-protective.  

Too often, my tendency is to second-guess my personal power.  I can defer to what others might be thinking about something I do or say — both before and after I have done or said it (whether it's really what they're thinking or not).  I then try to offset something (often subconsciously); even though it needs to be done or said and, in doing so, suck the power out of it.  Not as much because it could be wrong (why couldn't it be?), but because of something I'm trying to avoid about what someone might think if it is.

It's not pretty (others sense it, but are often not sure what is happening) and it's not good (it's self-serving).

Sunday, November 26, 2023

The Need to Make Something of Ourselves


Sabbath is not just rest from making things.

It's rest from the need to make something of ourselves.

-- Rich Villodas


Among just a few other things, there's few things quite like snowfall to help make this happen...more early snow-season here.

Saturday, November 25, 2023

UM Beats OSU...3rd Straight Time!

3 Observations & A Question….

I don’t care how much talent you have, you have to do something for a while to get really good at it — there’s nothing like experience to leverage talent.

When I am feeling insecure about something (and there are many things), it is helpful for me to shift the dynamic from what I can handle (or not) to what I believe in and desire to work for.


We are the ones who have to take responsibility (be mindful) of what we put into our bodies.

Did you know that eternity, in the Judeo-Christian concept, is not primarily about time?


Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

Friday, November 24, 2023

Moving

I see the direct connection between moving and health.

-- Mathea Allansmith, 92 - oldest woman in the world to complete a marathon

Thursday, November 23, 2023

BE Grateful



Grateful is something to BE.


Plus, some some history of the day...here.

Involve Your Boys / Symphony / Polar Plunge

For the early-risers on this thankful day, here's a couple of unrelated prism-like (glints of light) considerations for you:


...

This is the time of year we pause to make room for gratitude. And we think about sharing gifts with those we hold dear.

At the same time we are confronted by the news and can so quickly be overwhelmed by the suffering in the world, much of it caused by humans who perpetuate the lie that violence is the first and best and only recourse.

Our both/and, beautiful broken world can make a grateful heart hurt. We struggle to hold all of the above.

I’m reminded again of a story my Armenian piano teacher told me in college. She knew of two women — distant relatives — who during WWII had managed to save a little extra money to buy winter coats this time of year. They walked into town on a windy gray November day and were surprised to discover that a visiting symphony orchestra was going to be performing a concert that evening.

They looked at each other in knowing disbelief.

“We can be cold for one winter,” one of them announced as they stepped up to the box office to purchase ticket.

-- Linford Detweiler

...

And, this one from Garrison Keillor might make you smile more than once:

Wednesday, November 22, 2023

Gratitude Is A Gateway

Gratitude is a gateway.

So much research demonstrates that a discipline of gratitude leads to health of many kinds.  But, it also confirms that it needs to be a conscious thing...otherwise we just don't do it.  A centrifugal-type force seems to draw us towards the dynamics of problems and fears, so we have choose to countermand it...at a habitual level.

But, the benefits of doing so are irrefutable.  It helps us make more positive personal choices, like eating well, exercising, and getting outside. It improves our relationships and gives us a more positive outlook on life. Perhaps, one of the more insightful observations about it is that giving thanks is an essential part of what makes us human.

Gratitude is like a big invitation…to more.  An invitation to recognize goodness, an invitation to love — to an understanding of true abundance.  Not the kind that is about the endless accumulation of things, but the kind of abundance that is the endless participation with all the graces that are around us (love this observation of Wm. Paul Young).  It is like a door that opens us up to nearly everything that is good — a gateway.



Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.

-- Eckhart Tolle

Tuesday, November 21, 2023

Not Dependent On Circumstances

Gratitude isn’t dependent on my circumstances. It’s like a muscle. The more you flex and exercise it, the stronger it becomes. Then, the more gratitude I feel and the deeper that gratitude reaches — even when my circumstances don’t warrant it.

-- Allison Fallon

Monday, November 20, 2023

When?

Ever noticed...when you are more aware of what you are thankful for?

…or the things that inhibit that awareness?

Sunday, November 19, 2023

Alternative to the 'midlife crisis'

The Earth Never Changes

Generations come and generations go, but the earth never changes. The sun rises and the sun sets, then hurries around to rise again. The wind blows south, and then turns north. Around and around it goes, blowing in circles. Rivers run into the sea, but the sea is never full. Then the water returns again to the rivers and flows out again to the sea.  

-- Ecclesiastes 1:4–7


(Oh, and don't miss the point here — this is not a rebuttal on climate change.)

Even as our experience is rooted in things we try to keep track of with time, there is a timelessness to things.  This can feel meaningless when we seek meaning exclusively from the things themselves.  But, the Source of things provides the meaning of them and this transforms them from futility to gift.  In this way, there is even a kind of comfort from the motion of this endless cycling, of which we are beneficiaries. 

We have much for which to be grateful — so much has been provided, including our access to the Source itself.

Saturday, November 18, 2023

3 Observations & A Question….

We all have working assumptions, some of which are true.


Words matter a lot, but still not to the same degree for everyone.


We are all thinking thoughts — the trick is determining which ones are worth sharing at any given moment.


Do we really want to become experts on the inconsistencies of others (you really can't see where that dumps you?)?


More good news on inflation

Friday, November 17, 2023

Fall Tree Of The Day, 2023

An annual series:  Fall Tree Of The Day:

Warsaw, IN

More Fall pics here....

Thursday, November 16, 2023

Fraud

If you see fraud and do not say fraud, you are a fraud.

-- Nicholas Nassim Taleb

Wednesday, November 15, 2023

Justice

What is justice?  

Does anybody really care what it is (especially those who have the power over it)?

What is the basis of our sense of justice?  Perhaps, even more importantly, is that basis changing?

It is often claimed that Judeo-Christian ethics make up the cornerstone of our sense of justice.  But, assuming that was true, how long has it been since anyone has really asked whether or not that is still true, especially in terms of whether or not that is actually happening?  Claiming something is one thing; doing it is another.

As seems true of so many things, our working definitions and supporting assumptions seem to be getting smaller against the back-drop of what is true about justice in the broader sense.  And, part of that smallness is reflected in how we think — especially about what is fair.  Further, that working definition presumes an understanding that is primarily focused on what happens to us as individuals.  Justice, too often, has come to understood as what seems fair...to me (or, more indictingly, for me).  Most common folk still seem to resonate that nobody should have an unfair advantage (although, it sure seems like we don't seem to mind too much when we have it...).  And, if something unfair should somehow still occur, we believe we deserve compensation for that unfairness (after all, that is only just, right?).  

But, fairness is a rather small slice of the idea of justice.

And, believe it or not, the Christian Bible has something to say about the extent of its interest in justice.  Though it considers personal ramifications, it seems far more interested in something collective.  What is good, needs to be good for everyone.  Individual issues often seem subordinate to the needs of the larger community.  Faith in the Bible is not primarily personal...or private.  This quickly runs afoul of the American sense of what is important about justice.  We seem much more interested in dealing with the criminal, than we are the dynamics involved with crime.  Just "put them in jail"...and we can check that (them) off of our list.  Interesting though, how things get different real fast when we feel that something unfair happens to us.  Suddenly, we're very interested, at all kinds of levels.

So what does the Bible actually seem to portray about what justice looks like in God's eyes? 

For starters, the word for “justice” in the Bible is the same word as “righteousness.” This overlap shows that the central concern of biblical justice was not “getting what you deserve”; rather, it was making right what was done wrong, restoring what had been destroyed, healing the wounds of an offensive act. It was about bringing balance and wholeness back to the community, which is why you often see scales as an icon for justice.  

But the scales can be misleading, since it is not just about balance or even “eye for an eye” justice. Real justice goes much deeper. One of my friends who is a biblical scholar says the best contemporary translation for the ancient notion of “justice/righteousness” is “restorative justice.”

-- Shane Claiborne


It would seem that perspective looks a lot more like it is about love, than it is about a personal sense of fairness....



Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

-- Williams Shakespeare

Tuesday, November 14, 2023

LT: Absorb Pain Without

Leaders are ones who learn to absorb pain without passing it on to others or to themselves. 

-- Emmanuel Katongole and Chris Rice

Monday, November 13, 2023

Pleasure

I'm wondering...if pleasure is not as much a goal, as it is a byproduct.

When it becomes a goal, its logical extent becomes a bit strange.

Sunday, November 12, 2023

When We Are Asking Questions


We are closer to God when we are asking questions than when we think we have the answers.

-- Abraham Joshua Herschel

Saturday, November 11, 2023

3 Observations & A Question….

It’s one thing to talk about something that is good; it’s quite another to actually see it happening (just one example...here).


We seem designed to respond to challenge — because, at every age, it creates and maintains a mechanism of engagement.


You really need to acknowledge what you don't feel like doing — so, you can decide whether or not to do anyway.

 

Don't we pretty much have to admit that so much of what we think about things we haven't directly experienced is mostly influenced the opinions of others (whoever it is we're reading or listening to)?



History: Veterans Day

In November 1919, President Woodrow Wilson commemorated Armistice Day, saying that Americans would reflect on the anniversary of the armistice “with solemn pride in the heroism of those who died in the country’s service and with gratitude for the victory, both because of the thing from which it has freed us and because of the opportunity it has given America to show her sympathy with peace and justice in the councils of the nations…."  Continue...here.

-- Heather Cox RichardsonLetters from an American

Friday, November 10, 2023

Knowledge Transfer


In the school nurse’s office, I loved chatting with Sarah, a vivacious 9-year-old who had been managing her Type 1 diabetes for years. Several times a day, she stopped in to check her blood sugar and adjust her insulin dose. I asked her why one day, just to see how she answered.

“Because I’m always eating too much sugar and too many cookies, and I can’t keep my blood sugar down,” she said.  

This response made me profoundly sad because she had somehow assumed she was to blame for her condition. In Type 1 diabetes, the body attacks the pancreas, keeping it from producing sufficient insulin. Even if Sarah ate a perfectly healthy diet, she would depend on insulin injections to process carbohydrates.

When I talked to Sarah’s parents, they were upset—they never realized that she thought about the disease as her fault. But this kind of hidden miscommunication is common. One way to uncover it: a technique called teach-back, which research has shown to be effective for learning. 

Here’s how it works: continue here...

-- Kelly Fradin


Thursday, November 09, 2023

Accept It


Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it.

-- Eckhart Tolle 

Wednesday, November 08, 2023

With The End In Mind or ....

I’m trying something new today....

I will be adding things here as the day unfolds. Largely unedited, I’m going to try to capture the flow of some of my thoughts, see how they evolve, and watch where they end up without anything particularly preconceived guiding the way. …will use my phone, too, so could be some typos (just saying).

For starters, it seems to me that having the end in mind is generally pretty helpful, especially given the sometimes-tyrannical nature of the moment.

But, once you’ve lived a while, it is hard not to also recognize the tenuousness of much of life and, therefore, at least some of its outcomes.

An anticipated or desired end certainly can (and does) happen. But, more often than not it seems, whatever that is isn't what actually happens, while at the same time something else does.

Assuming this isn’t an aberration, the question could be, why (especially given our goal-oriented tendencies)? Why do things happen more like this, after all? Is it because it generally takes us a while to truly learn that any particular end is not quite as important as what is learned in the process of getting there? Or, perhaps as it is often more popularly put, is the journey more important than the destination? 

One would wonder, though, how different what happens on the journey would be if the destination you set out for was actually something else? In other words, isn’t what happens along the way distinctly impacted by the direction one heads in the first place? It doesn’t seem hard to argue, for example, that the content (if not quality) of our current experience is often impacted or influenced by what has happened to us (good or bad) before this particular moment.

So, what do we make of this dialectic — do we set hard-and-fast goals and relentlessly pursue them or do we go-with-the-flow because it doesn't matter anyway?

First of all, always be aware that things presented in binary form are likely missing something important.

I am in Chicago today for business.  As I drove through it, I couldn't help but reflect on what it took to make everything the way it is now in this big city.  On the one hand, a lot of vision — staying on track.  And, on the other, a lot of other stuff along the way — being flexible with the challenges and opportunities that were happening at any given moment.  The city is still changing right now, in fact, even as it both resembles and defies what some of those who had vision for it, before it began, had in mind.

Final thought (for now):  The more we observe this dynamic between these two phenomena, the more we can acknowledge it and embrace the notion that, actually, both are important.  This lends itself to making room for each and considering when they might be best applied, either by context or at differing points in time.

At a more personal level, the most compelling data comes from our personal experience — wouldn't you agree?  What I planned to do and where I've ended up are, in fact, quite a mix of things partially anticipated and nothing I could have imagined.  How about you?


Tuesday, November 07, 2023

Asking For Help

Asking for help is an act of service. Don't deny the people who love you the honor of being there to support you.

-- Simon Sinek

Monday, November 06, 2023

Response vs Reaction

I’ve noticed...that I can work rather hard (often subconsciously) to balance walking a tight-rope between creating response and creating reaction. 

Sometimes that walk is so self-serving, it loses any power altogether.

Sunday, November 05, 2023

A Slippery Slope

'Poem for the week' -- "A Slippery Slope":


I can feel an unfamiliar inclination to cynicism growing with the weight of recent days,

and I know it is a stumbling block to my worship.


The beating heart of my being is belief 

that you are always graciously giving

and, in so doing,

restoratively drawing all things to your center.


Cynicism is a protective barrier

and a clean means of categorization—

but it insulates me from the earthy richness of your mercy.


Tilt my heart’s inclination again,

that I might joyfully slide into the grass and gravel of your goodness.


May delight be definitive,

may I work in wonder,

and may my life sing—

above the beating war drums of commodity, competition and carelessness—

that all is gift.


Amen. 


-- Emily CashDriftwood Prayers

Saturday, November 04, 2023

4 Observations (from Others)

A human being would certainly not grow to be 70 or 80 years old if this longevity had no meaning for the species to which he belongs. The afternoon of human life must also have a significance of its own and cannot be merely a pitiful appendage to life’s morning. 

-- Carl Jung



Where all think alike, no one thinks very much. 

 -- Walter Lippmann


Learning how to be still, to really be still and let life happen — that stillness can become a radiance.

-- Morgan Freeman


Happiness is like a butterfly, the more you chase it, the more it will evade you, but if you notice the other things around you, it will gently come and sit on your shoulder.

-- Henry David Thoreau


Prior 4 Observations (from Others).

Go-time in the Red Zone

From Michiana Chronicles:

Grandma watched the game through a chain link fence, sunk deep into a folding camp chair near the concession stand.

“Hit ‘em!” she shouted.

The offense was moving too freely, driving through the D line down after down. The tackling was terrible.

“Wrap ‘em up!”

But nobody did. A ground-and-pound clinic from the boys in silver just punching it up the gut against the boys in blue. Smashmouth football. Rock’em sock’em football. Blue had no answer.

To be fair, Blue’s defensive end was three-and-a-half footballs tall. Their interior line was pretty shrimpy, too. Silver had some dudes up front, and their running back was more than five footballs tall.

Grandma turned away from the game and into her smartphone.  Continue (or listen) here....

-- Brett McNeil

Friday, November 03, 2023

How We Enculturate

Years ago, I read about a study that has stuck with me. Middle school children were given a scenario: Your mother is very ill and needs medicine, but you don’t have enough money. What do you do? Most of the boys responded that they would steal the medicine while most of the girls responded that they would approach the pharmacist to make an arrangement to work off or pay for the medicine in installments. The male response was praised for its efficiency, and the female response was dismissed for its passivity. The lesson was that guys get things done, no matter the method. For the boys, the ends justify the means. For the girls, the ends are the means.

-- Kareem Abdul-Jabbar

Thursday, November 02, 2023

We Are Stronger When


We are stronger when we listen, and smarter when we share.

-- Rania Al-Abdullah

Wednesday, November 01, 2023

2 Hours Outdoors


So much of our existence has become fragmented.  And, our sense of stress has increased accordingly.

According to Outside magazine, Americans went on 1 billion fewer hikes, bike rides and walks in 2018, compared with 2008.  And, Axios Finish Line reported that while the share of people spending time in nature ticked up during the pandemic as folks had more free time, we're still spending more time indoors than we did a decade ago.  More startling is the statistic that some 100 million Americans, including 27 million kids, don't have access to decent green spaces.

One Nature.com study — with 20,000 participants — by researchers from the University of Exeter found that people who spent two hours a week in parks, at beaches or in woodlands scored higher than others on metrics related to physical and psychological well-being.

For years now, I have noticed a similar pattern — something about spending time in nature shifts an internal dynamic about reality for me.  While I'm guessing it could be debated what that shift is, I'm pretty confident that our internal systems signal the impact of a more natural orientation to our existence (than the hybrid-ized one we have ended up with).  And, you don't have to look very long to discover that people throughout time (ancient or more recent) have reached similar conclusions.  Even sacred narratives seem to point this out.

Our sense of self is better understood in the context of the range of broader relationships with the world we all live in (acknowledged or not).  We exist within something larger and that is important to know about, if not more fully understand.  While many features of American life are often somewhere between interesting and good, many others are not.  Stress caused by the isolation often felt from a false sense of autonomy is pretty evident.  According to widely available reports like those referenced above, it would do us all well to make some re-prioritizations...like routinely spending even a small amount of time outside, where a full range sensory impacts can be experienced in a way that connects us to the larger goods of reality.

In the wilderness, I sense the wholeness hidden “in all things.” It is in the taste of wild berries, the scent of sunbaked pine, the sight of the Northern Lights, the sound of water lapping the shore, signs of a bedrock integrity that is eternal and beyond all doubt.

-- Parker Palmer

Tuesday, October 31, 2023

LT: Right Now

Whatever you have just done is not nearly as important as what you are doing right now.

-- Mike Krzyzewski

Monday, October 30, 2023

How We Choose To View Things

Ever noticed...that how we choose to view things is often serving something within us?

Sunday, October 29, 2023

Politics


May the Church see politics through the lens of Jesus and not Jesus through the lens of politics.

-- Rich Villodas

Saturday, October 28, 2023

3 Observations & A Question….

Don’t impoverish yourself with worry.


There is so much beauty around...that you had nothing to do with.



People with resources can really influence, if not shape, the experiences of many others...of course, in bad or good ways.


One can reach certain conclusions under the cover of darkness — the question may be, how do they then stand in the light?



Friday, October 27, 2023

It Can Give You A Lot

Tonight's photo — which comes to us from our colleagues at Axios Portland — was taken by an 18-year-old in Oregon who's recovering from drug addiction and is two months sober.

The teen, who is part of Collective Roots, a family recovery group, says there's joy in "appreciating the world."

"Like embracing the realization that the world doesn't owe you anything, but it can give you a lot — and it does."


In light today’s earlier post, isn't there always a great tension in knowing about the co-existence of profound beauty (joy, sunsets, mountains, etc.) and unspeakable terror (Maine, Gaza, Ukraine, etc.)?  Sometimes even that seems like too much...but, it is necessary (see Barbara Holmes reflection here).

Burning Bushes

'Poem for the week' -- "Burning Bushes":


It’s fall here, so all the bushes are burning:

engulfed in red and cool to the touch.

Proud and sentimental and safe. 


But the world is burning with unholy fire,

and I watch crimson flood the canvas through the screen.

These are no happy little accidents.


This is the history channel in real-time,

unsanitized by temporal distance.

Freshly orphaned babies, limp in the arms of bewildered strangers.

A soccer ball, tearfully unreturned to a now-dead friend.

The beeping pulse of life-support gone dark.

Screaming and blaming and weeping and terrifying silence. 


It’s a wildfire, unquenched by tears and prayer.

There is no flamed pillar of divine presence—

only waste and ash, apocalyptic devastation.


I hold a vigil in my yard,

stroking blood-red leaves as though lighting a candle,

projecting my burning pleas into the darkness.

There is only static.

Please don’t remain static.  


-- Emily CashDriftwood Prayers

Thursday, October 26, 2023

Create The Fact


Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.

-- William James

Wednesday, October 25, 2023

Disillusionment, Moral Integrity, and the Beauty of the Ordinary

My friends, we are on the way to becoming a two-tiered society composed of a few winners and a larger group of Americans left behind, whose anger and disillusionment are easily manipulated. Once unbottled, mass resentment can poison the very fabric of society — the moral integrity of society — replacing ambition with envy, replacing tolerance with hate. Today the targets of that rage are immigrants and welfare mothers and government officials and gays, and an ill-defined counterculture. But as the middle class continues to erode, who will be the targets tomorrow?

-- Robert Reich, 1994


Heading towards 30 years later now, have things gotten any better?

Well if this headline is any indication...not much (perhaps worse, due to today's actors):

Trump pledges to turn away those who don’t like ‘our religion’

We know what this means, don't we (if we can't tell by now, we may never recognize things for what they are)?  Such dynamics are built on a cultivated appetite for the threatening and sensational.  If it isn't sensational (or threatening), we are now just too bored to care very much.  Make me care...we say (inadvertently).  Except there is a logical limit to that kind of demand, and it appears we are now fully up against it.  Worry is its own kind of fuel and we are sucking in its fumes with our mouths wide open.

I was out walking last evening and a bit overwhelmed by a little different — the range and extent of the beauty of the Fall season now in full bloom all around us.  A thought wandered across my path:

Don't impoverish yourself with worry.

...and this corollary piped up:

...there is too much beauty around us, that we had nothing to do with.

I suspect there is something profound embedded in these hints that we can get from looking away from the populist raging that so dominates our attention.

What we notice is often a function of what we are looking at.  We are the ones who will have to decide what we're going to keep focusing on (obviously, those selling us things that change our appetites don't really care about what's truly good for us).  They just want us to keep buying and ratcheting up the things we end up thinking we need protection from because of their hysterics.  

The real sensations from my walk reminded me that it is often the ordinary that deserves our attention (see Sarah Bessey's reflections on this here ) and that a more realistic rhythm with the naturalness of life is a beautiful wisdom.

...one that, quite possibly, could off-set some of the vagaries of our times' poisons, if each of us is willing to adjust our appetites.

Tuesday, October 24, 2023

LT: By Compassion

God leads by compassion, never by condemnation. God offers us the grace to weep over our sins more than to perfectly overcome them, to humbly recognize our littleness rather than to become big.

-- Richard Rohr

Monday, October 23, 2023

Quality of Life

I'm wondering...what, in the end, are the better (good) standards of quality-of-life?

Clearly, as a culture, we haven’t nailed it…as much as we like to think we have.

Sunday, October 22, 2023

Sin, Crime, and Justice

In the Old Testament, justice and sin were both relational realities, and justice was not about upholding individual rights, but protecting the well-being of communities.…

Crime is never merely an individual breaking the law; it is always a communal transgression that fractures shalom.

God’s justice moves toward restoration, reintegration, and redemption. God’s justice is inherently connected to healing the harmed, restoring what has been lost, and reconciling those who are estranged from God and community. God’s heart and justice are inherently restorative.

-- Dominique DuBois Gilliard


Clearly sin has more relational componentry than many of our religious traditions have ended up with today, which makes it hard to disconnect from the idea of evil.  More on sin…and evil here.

Work Really Hard

 


Saturday, October 21, 2023

3 Observations & A Question….

Some people sure seem to have a lot of opinions about how other people should be living their lives….


No one really likes to be managed — they want to be heard.


Life is largely a matter of availability; what we have done and how we are living itto make ourselves available to it and to those who live with us in it.


At what point does it dawn on you how much you have spent of your life trying to manage your future?


Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

On the Lighter Side: It's People I Can't Stand

 On The Lighter Side

Friday, October 20, 2023

Something Else


Often when you think you're at the end of something, you're at the beginning of something else.

-- Fred Rogers

Thursday, October 19, 2023

A Beautiful Thing

…happened 60 years ago today:


See some of what she has done since...here.


Oh, and:

Wednesday, October 18, 2023

Chaos

At some point, you could no longer avoid the conclusion that chaos is not only the result, but the strategy.

...how immediately resonant is this observation?

It seems nearly the whole political world has bought into it.

...unless the media version of the world is not the whole world.

Which it isn't.

But, still, we are so preoccupied by chaos...because at some level it does work (just not constructively), especially in terms of requiring our attention.

But, it’s a damn shame for those who peddle (or worse) in it — as it is for those of  us who just keep clicking away at their conspiracies like…voyeurs. 

Do I sound a little angry?  I’m not sure who to be more mad at — our leaders for not working at anything other than maintaining their power or us for not demanding any better.

We can do better – we have to do better… maybe even for the sake of our very own survival.

Tuesday, October 17, 2023

Work Worth Doing

Far and away the best prize that life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth doing. 

-- Theodore Roosevelt

Monday, October 16, 2023

Interests

I’ve noticed…though I have a deep respect for both, I’ve typically had more psychological interests than mechanical ones.

If nothing else, this gives me some clues about what I have to work a little harder at (and what I don't).

Sunday, October 15, 2023

Evidence


We're not an advertisement for Jesus; we're supposed to be evidence.

-- Bob Goff

Saturday, October 14, 2023

3 Observations & A Question….

When we’re doing something bad (or harmful), we have to stop doing it — we can’t just try to do something good, too, to offset it…but, then, keep right on doing the bad thing.


Sometimes life requires little more than just a great amount of patience.


You really have to pay attention to your life (especially since no one else really will...or can) — to look out for things that affect the quality of your self.


How many terms have we invented for the primary purpose of casting disparagement (in other words, the significance of their meaning is more evocative than it is substantive)?


Prior 3 Observations & A Question….

Friday, October 13, 2023

Israel: Why?


I had queued another 'On the Lighter Side' for today.  But, I just can't do it, in light of the horrific world events this week (maybe I can try it again tomorrow...) — it would seem, somehow, disrespectful of the impacts of what appears to be the nature of our prevailing human condition.  

Regarding why Israel was unprepared for the Hamas attacks:

“Israel has been governed by a populist strongman … who is a public-relations genius but an incompetent prime minister. He has repeatedly preferred his personal interests over the national interest and has built his career on dividing the nation against itself. He has appointed people to key positions based on loyalty more than qualifications, took credit for every success while never taking responsibility for failures, and seemed to give little importance to either telling or hearing the truth.

The coalition [he] established has been by far the worst. It is an alliance of messianic zealots and shameless opportunists, who ignored [the nation’s] many problems — including the deteriorating security situation — and focused instead on grabbing unlimited power for themselves. In pursuit of this goal, they adopted extremely divisive policies, spread outrageous conspiracy theories about state institutions that oppose their policies, and labeled the country’s serving elites as “deep state” traitors.”

-- Yuval Noah Narari, Israeli historian

This assessment sounds eerily similar to populism some place not as far away....


Ultimately evil is done not so much by evil people, but by good people who do not know themselves and who do not probe deeply. 

-- Reinhold Niebuhr

...at least consider this perspective from Diana Butler Bass, which echos some of this one by Kareem Abdul-Jabbar.  Without at least some of Niebuhr's perception, we are left with the consequences of interminable iterations of revenge, instead of the healing opportunities that could come from grieving

Thursday, October 12, 2023

Unbecoming

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The path of awakening is not about becoming who you are.  Rather it is about unbecoming who you are not.

-- Albert Schweitzer